I have not intentionally been absent from this blog.
This blog is totally unlike the others. It's become focused and is not the place to share current events unrelated to Marian's Story, opinions on other topics, etc.
I've been busy gathering additional information, perceptions, stories and remembrances. Now I need to let them 'gel'. I need to attempt to verify some information, compile even more and then let the information lead me where it will.
I post on my blogs much the way I conduct myself in 'real life'. I don't make small talk, nor do I chit chat.
I've never been one to fill idle or empty space with filler. Such is the case with this blog.
This blog is all about Marian Louise Baker now. Every now and then I may make a reference to other similar crimes but it won't be often.
I am still waiting on some responses and some information from people relatively close to the situation. I so appreciate their help, their time and their consideration as I attempt to learn all I can about Marian and her life.
I will update here as the information is available and after I've had a chance to let it 'gel' and then revisit it to give it a sense of cohesion :)
Monday, November 23, 2009
Friday, November 20, 2009
Been Out Of Town For A Few Days, Be Back Sunday Night!
Taking care of business :) Have a great weekend!
Monday, November 9, 2009
To Be Remembered As....
With the recent passing of Mr. John A. Jarvis, the Headmaster Emeritus of Lancaster Country Day School, I've been reliving some of the memories I have of my days at LCDS. Mr. Jarvis was truly one of those people that you never, ever forgot.
He touched so many lives but it was his attention to the single, solitary student of the moment that everyone remembers most.
Marian Louise Baker touched lives in exactly the same way. Her smile is still remembered. Her laugh and concern for others has never been diminished nor forgotten over the years.
These are two people who are remembered with smiles, admiration, love and respect.
It makes me go back to thoughts I often have.
We all have a choice as to how we will be remembered when we shuffle off of this mortal coil.
That's a weighty responsibility on our own shoulders if you consider it.
Neither John Jarvis or Marian Baker had set down a real plan for how they would be recalled by those left behind. They were just being who they were, doing what they do. And what blessings they were to those who knew them, loved them and those who were lucky enough to have ever met them.
When you move on, what will people remember most about you?
Was it your smile, your kindness and compassion for others?
Was it your willingness to help those who needed a hand up or an ear or a shoulder?
Will you be remembered as someone who could be counted on to tell the truth and be respectable and admirable?
In all reality, the memories and impressions we leave this earth are the essence of our purpose here.
We leave our footprints behind.
Marian Baker's footprints are still clear. Her character still stands, no matter the smoke and mirrors that were played for profit.
John Jarvis' footprints will remain clear for generations.
I aspire to be like Marian Baker and John Jarvis.
It's not about money or prestige. It is all about treating other human beings with singular respect and kindness.
And making sure that anyone you interact with knows that they are significant and they matter.
That's the good stuff :)
He touched so many lives but it was his attention to the single, solitary student of the moment that everyone remembers most.
Marian Louise Baker touched lives in exactly the same way. Her smile is still remembered. Her laugh and concern for others has never been diminished nor forgotten over the years.
These are two people who are remembered with smiles, admiration, love and respect.
It makes me go back to thoughts I often have.
We all have a choice as to how we will be remembered when we shuffle off of this mortal coil.
That's a weighty responsibility on our own shoulders if you consider it.
Neither John Jarvis or Marian Baker had set down a real plan for how they would be recalled by those left behind. They were just being who they were, doing what they do. And what blessings they were to those who knew them, loved them and those who were lucky enough to have ever met them.
When you move on, what will people remember most about you?
Was it your smile, your kindness and compassion for others?
Was it your willingness to help those who needed a hand up or an ear or a shoulder?
Will you be remembered as someone who could be counted on to tell the truth and be respectable and admirable?
In all reality, the memories and impressions we leave this earth are the essence of our purpose here.
We leave our footprints behind.
Marian Baker's footprints are still clear. Her character still stands, no matter the smoke and mirrors that were played for profit.
John Jarvis' footprints will remain clear for generations.
I aspire to be like Marian Baker and John Jarvis.
It's not about money or prestige. It is all about treating other human beings with singular respect and kindness.
And making sure that anyone you interact with knows that they are significant and they matter.
That's the good stuff :)
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
My Innate Curiosity
I posted this question or one similar to it on The Confluence blog.
Hypothetical situation:
You are a juror in a murder trial.
You have been instructed to not discuss the case in any way, shape or form.
You have located my forum posts, blog posts and comments on the 'net.
Would any of the opinions I've offered or questions I've posed have a genuine effect on your ultimate decision as to the guilt or innocence of the defendant?
Or would you rely on the evidence as presented by the prosecution and the defense?
As I posted elsewhere, that's not a difficult question for me.
I could read opinions, theories and comments all day long. It comes down to the evidence.
No jury decision is minor to either side.
And most of all its not trivial to the defendant.
We all have the right to be judged on the weight of the evidence.
Just a question that ran through my head this afternoon.
The impact of the true electronic age is unknown right now. What it may lead to in the way we live our lives in the future has yet to be seen.
I thought today about the Roseboro murder trial and the petition for a hearing filed by the defense.
I believe I remember a television interview with "the" juror in question, I believe his name is Nick?
At the time I saw the interview, I was unaware as I believe most people were, that there was any question of juror misconduct on his part regarding Facebook postings and responses.
I was impressed that a young man could be so forthcoming and frank in stating the reason or basis for his decision. He seemed clear and level headed. He left a good impression on me and several others that spoke to me about it.
He impressed me as an intelligent young man.
Once the brouhaha started over the Facebook postings I really didn't see the problem as that influential.
In a way, he's already testified as to his thought process in his decision in the verdict.
I hope the DA and the defense have pulled that interview and have watched it again and again.
I never got the impression that the young man in the interview made his decision based on anything but the evidence, no matter what was posted on his wall on Facebook.
What do you think?
Hypothetical situation:
You are a juror in a murder trial.
You have been instructed to not discuss the case in any way, shape or form.
You have located my forum posts, blog posts and comments on the 'net.
Would any of the opinions I've offered or questions I've posed have a genuine effect on your ultimate decision as to the guilt or innocence of the defendant?
Or would you rely on the evidence as presented by the prosecution and the defense?
As I posted elsewhere, that's not a difficult question for me.
I could read opinions, theories and comments all day long. It comes down to the evidence.
No jury decision is minor to either side.
And most of all its not trivial to the defendant.
We all have the right to be judged on the weight of the evidence.
Just a question that ran through my head this afternoon.
The impact of the true electronic age is unknown right now. What it may lead to in the way we live our lives in the future has yet to be seen.
I thought today about the Roseboro murder trial and the petition for a hearing filed by the defense.
I believe I remember a television interview with "the" juror in question, I believe his name is Nick?
At the time I saw the interview, I was unaware as I believe most people were, that there was any question of juror misconduct on his part regarding Facebook postings and responses.
I was impressed that a young man could be so forthcoming and frank in stating the reason or basis for his decision. He seemed clear and level headed. He left a good impression on me and several others that spoke to me about it.
He impressed me as an intelligent young man.
Once the brouhaha started over the Facebook postings I really didn't see the problem as that influential.
In a way, he's already testified as to his thought process in his decision in the verdict.
I hope the DA and the defense have pulled that interview and have watched it again and again.
I never got the impression that the young man in the interview made his decision based on anything but the evidence, no matter what was posted on his wall on Facebook.
What do you think?
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Touching Base :)
It's been a busy few days and I have some organizing to do re: notes, thoughts, etc.
I will be posting and updating once that is done, and I have much research yet ahead of me.
I thank those of you who've contacted me. I keep saying "Thank you" and I hope you all know that it's not lip service. There is no way on this earth I could do this without your help.
I'm honored that you have chosen to share your memories, stories, thoughts and theories with me.
You are my link to that time. You are my link to finally knowing Marian.
What a lady :) You're respect, love and admiration of her was never misplaced, that is clear, even after all these years.
There are blessings in everything we do. And this story, as sad and tragic as it has always been has given me some blessings.
I hope to make Marian and all who knew and loved her, feel as if the truth has finally seen the light of day.
I am in the process of finding out what happened to the picture of Marian that hung in East Hall at F & M. I pray that it will be located and put back where it belongs, on the campus she loved so much!
I will be posting and updating once that is done, and I have much research yet ahead of me.
I thank those of you who've contacted me. I keep saying "Thank you" and I hope you all know that it's not lip service. There is no way on this earth I could do this without your help.
I'm honored that you have chosen to share your memories, stories, thoughts and theories with me.
You are my link to that time. You are my link to finally knowing Marian.
What a lady :) You're respect, love and admiration of her was never misplaced, that is clear, even after all these years.
There are blessings in everything we do. And this story, as sad and tragic as it has always been has given me some blessings.
I hope to make Marian and all who knew and loved her, feel as if the truth has finally seen the light of day.
I am in the process of finding out what happened to the picture of Marian that hung in East Hall at F & M. I pray that it will be located and put back where it belongs, on the campus she loved so much!
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